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[–] phoenixz@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Fully agree with this but the problem is that restaurant owners pay their staff shit

Give proper wages to servers and the tipping can be history

[–] OpenPassageways@lemmy.zip 3 points 20 minutes ago

MA had a ballot initiative that would have gradually brought the minimum tipped wage in line with the state's minimum wage over the next 5 years or something.

Restaurants posted signs at their door to vote NO and that 90 percent of tipped workers opposed the bill.

A bartender I know told me that I should vote no because if it passed then restaurants would have to reduce headcount and servers who were bad at their jobs would get paid just as well as servers that offer good service.

So it seems like the restaurants just threatened people with losing their jobs and so they voted NO and convinced others to do the same.

The measure didn't pass.

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 9 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

I believe I'm a somewhat generous tipper.

Just today I rounded up a 23 up to 25. Euros that is. And I'm in Finland.

This is considered a generous tip, most don't tip at all.

When I drove a taxi basically if I had a shift on Christmas eve, then I'd get tips. Otherwise it was like at most 3-5% of riders who gave tips. And this was back in oughts, when people actually used cash. (I literally never had someone tip me on a card when driving a taxi.)

[–] ITGuyLevi@programming.dev 4 points 2 hours ago

I tip if I order food at a sitdown place out of habit and social pressure. Maybe my ignorance is the problem in the world but, I don't understand how I could feel the service went above or beyond handing me a bag if all they do is hand me a bag.

[–] VantaBrandon@lemmy.world 19 points 4 hours ago (3 children)

I also don't tip

Because I don't go to restaurants with servers

I vote with my wallet that the whole concept is stupid, I hate paying 20% for someone to be fake nice and move food 10 feet

[–] refalo@programming.dev 2 points 1 hour ago

you're just in a different income class. nothing wrong with that.

but people with the money to burn tend to prefer enjoying nicer things, such as personal service, so they pay for it.

[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

They should be replaced with automated mechanical food shuttles. I would tip those.

[–] Eldbogi@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 hour ago (2 children)
[–] scutiger@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago

How else do you plan to knock them over?

[–] refalo@programming.dev 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)
[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (2 children)

This is the way. By going but not tipping you're just fucking over the server, not the business. To hurt the business' bottom line you have to not go. Or dine and dash, but that then fucks the server harder while also affecting the business.

[–] todd_bonzalez@lemm.ee 3 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

That why they said they don't go to restaurants with servers. Either go to a restaurant where you buy food at a counter and bus yourself, or go to a tipless resturant with servers. Obviously don't just screw over the server.

Though, on a large scale, if everyone just stopped tipping all at once, nobody would be willing to work for server wages anymore, and restaurants would have to increase pay or get fucked. Too bad our economy is based on fighting for survival, and not the profit motive, because the reality is that it would just fuck people's lives up really bad.

[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 hour ago

And I was agreeing, thus starting the comment with "that is the way," which I'm assuming you missed.

And sure, and I'm assuming you mean more than $7.25, but there'd be a lot of missed rent and power bills along the way until they catch up.

[–] sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

What about dine and dash, while leaving a cash tip?

[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

9/10 chance that goes to cover part of your bill and the waiter gets fucked, but if you could guarantee they pocket it that'd work.

[–] sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 hour ago (2 children)

Hmm, maybe slip it to them when asking for the bill?

[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 22 minutes ago

Sure, that might work, or give it to them up front (protip btw, you want GREAT service? Frontload that tip, your server will break the law for you if you do that lol).

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 1 points 39 minutes ago

That’ll get them fired for looking like they conspired with you

[–] todd_bonzalez@lemm.ee 3 points 2 hours ago

There's a good chance the restaurant will take it all since they were "owed".

[–] Mango@lemmy.world 36 points 6 hours ago

No, it's because their manager who manages the business(hypothetically) isn't paying them.

[–] anticurrent@sh.itjust.works 26 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago) (3 children)

Just like groceries don't include tax in the advertised price. the system is designed to screw us over.

[–] PuddleOfKittens@sh.itjust.works 39 points 7 hours ago (6 children)

Just like groceries don’t include tax in the advertised price.

Nah, that's just in America, because Americans are dumb. Tipping doesn't exist here BTW, because it's idiotic and why would we do that.

(if Americans aren't dumb, why did they vote for Trump twice?)

(I finally found an upside to the Trump presidency!)

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 3 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Tipping doesn’t exist here BTW, because it’s idiotic

Idk where "here" is, but I've seen plenty of foreign countries's restaurants adopting tipping, particularly at higher end establishments, as business owners realize they can just ask for extra and get it.

[–] asret@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 hour ago

American culture is still seen as something to emulate in many parts of the world. Hopefully less so after the next four years. We've had the same stupid tipping culture emerge here as well - seems like a sign that taxes aren't high enough at the top end.

[–] NOT_RICK@lemmy.world 10 points 6 hours ago

Almost 70 million people voted against him, myself included. We’re not a monolith. Also, only 11 states tax groceries.

[–] HappyStarDiaz@real.lemmy.fan 15 points 7 hours ago

Americans are dumb af. Source: am American

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[–] gmanlikescheese@lemmy.world 6 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

To be fair, no products sold (that I'm aware of) include tax on the sticker price, and here in TX groceries (unprepared food) are not subject to state sales tax.

Exactly.

The reason, from my understanding, is that taxes on products can vary from region to region, so it's impractical to expect the store to have the price listed with the sales tax included, especially on advertisements. The sales tax in my state can vary by 1% or so between cities/counties, and advertisements are frequently at the state level, if not national level. My next door city has a 0.10% lower sales tax rate vs my city, and the resort area in the county has 1.5% higher sales tax than the rest of the county.

Food is taxed at a different rate, and the tax is split about 50/50 between state and local. Our state has been discussing ending the tax on food, but that would only end the state portion (1.75%), so the local tax (1.25% pretty much everywhere) would remain.

AFAIK, Europe includes it because it's imposed at the government level (I think EU?), not the local level.

I still think it's dumb, and it should at least be on the price stickers in the store so I can have a chance at estimating the final bill before I get to the register.

[–] deaf_fish@lemm.ee 11 points 7 hours ago

It pits the well being of the customer against the well being of the server. It's a pretty evil system. Pay everyone a living wage. Everybody deserves to live.

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