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[–] Prunebutt@slrpnk.net 86 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'd also like to see more imagery of Jesus smashing up the temple rather than him calmly sitting under a tree.

[–] MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz 19 points 1 week ago (5 children)

It's easy for religious figures to be depicted as tranquil. They are often all-knowing, and if not, have faith in something all-knowing. They can blindly believe that everything will be fine, even if right now things look bad.

Because sky-daddy will take care of things.

[–] HowManyNimons@lemmy.world 22 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The more I know, the less fucking tranquil I am.

[–] MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Well, yes.

But by all-knowing, I meant the kind of view an omniscient god would have, accompanied by complete control of the universe.

Essentially, religious figures typically get to exist, knowing for sure that everything is going and will go according to plan.

It's EASY to be tranquil, then. Even easier if you're just a human, who genuinely believes such an entity exists.

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[–] Curiousfur@lemmy.world 47 points 1 week ago (5 children)

I struggle to consider myself a pacifist as the paradox of tolerance is a difficult thing to have to come to terms with and I'm fundamentally a flawed human being, but I so fundamentally hate the presumed human cost of "just doing business". I am filled with a searing, incandescent rage at all times, fueled entirely by the hypocrisy of liberal ideology and the cruelty of conservatives. I'm burning up and trying to avoid melting down just getting through the day, surrounded by people who seemingly willingly refuse to understand nuance on hot issues or that complicated problems oftentimes require complicated solutions. I'm tired, boss.

[–] Lupus@feddit.org 30 points 1 week ago

a pacifist as the paradox of tolerance is a difficult thing to have to come to terms with and I'm fundamentally a flawed human being

Don't think of it as a paradox - tolerance is a social contract, once you break the terms you're no longer protected by that contract because accepting that would nullify the contract for all of us.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 20 points 1 week ago (8 children)

The thing is, you can be full of rage and still be against violence. Expressing rage doesn't have to be violent. People express rage in all sorts of non-violent ways, like writing or painting or sculpting.

[–] Curiousfur@lemmy.world 19 points 1 week ago (4 children)

My biggest weakness and most toxic trait is wanting to see bad people face consequences. That person weaving through traffic at high speeds without a turn signal, with no concern for the safety of everybody else on the road? Please drive off the road, crash, do something that drives home how selfish you are acting, and I hope it's expensive.

Politician campaigning on hate and saying that religion punishes 'wicked' people? I hope a loved one suffers some horrible disease and dies in pain.

Vote for an anti-abortion law? Watch your wife or daughter die of something entirely preventable. Refuse to provide exceptions for rape? Do unto others and all that, you know?

Nazi/christofascist/white supremacist? Worm food. Slowly.

I fix things, that's my whole driving purpose in life, and basically the only thing I'm particularly good at. I have never been very creative, I suck at writing , I'm not a great artist or sculptor or musician. It causes me so much pain and frustration to not be able to fix something, and so much rage to see people deliberately breaking things, doubly so when they delight in the suffering it causes.

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[–] pearsaltchocolatebar@discuss.online 5 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Pacifism doesn't mean you don't get angry. It basically just means that you don't think violence should be the first option.

Like, I'm a pacifist, but I wouldn't think twice about using lethal force to defend my life or others if no other peaceful option existed. But I'll always try non-violent approaches first.

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[–] Skyrmir@lemmy.world 44 points 1 week ago (5 children)

I still like the Doctor Who take on it. "Demons run when a good man goes to war."

[–] KomfortablesKissen@discuss.tchncs.de 32 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Demons run when a good man goes to war
Night will fall and drown the sun
When a good man goes to war
Friendship dies and true love lies
Night will fall and the dark will rise
When a good man goes to war
Demon’s Run, but count the cost
The battle’s won but the child is lost

Nothing good happens when a good man goes to war

But I also like the saying "If you want peace prepare for war". War is not the right choice, but it's seldom yours.

[–] luciferofastora@lemmy.zip 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

But I also like the saying "If you want peace prepare for war".

It's the cornerstone of the Security Dilemma: Increasing your own state's security by increasing military strength may be threatening to other states that don't know whether you're just improving defenses or gearing up for an offensive war.

Particularly in pre-modern times where land was more valuable (compared to developing the land you already have) and battle wasn't so destructive, war was more profitable, the threat was real. With the development of modern arms and mass mobilisation escalating the scale and destruction of war, the distinction between defensive and offensive militarisation is even harder to tell, and even though it's not as lucrative, we haven't outgrown the martial impulses so the issue remains.

So because you want to be safe, you improve your military. Because you improve your military, your neighbour fears for their own safety, so they improve theirs. This is why international relations and diplomacy are so important to prevent a runaway arms race.

[–] KomfortablesKissen@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Yes, its a very sad dilemma.

I believed for quite a long time (living in Germany) that this state of "peace by codependency" could be extended, even maybe applied worldwide, but I'm not so sure anymore. I still want this to be true, however.

But a defenseless state is still a very nice target. I'm not so blind as to miss both sides of the US protection, and the limitations and freedoms that come with it.

[–] luciferofastora@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I think we - collectively, as humanity, not any particular subgroup - need to get over that greedy, jealous, tribal "us vs. them" mindset that feeds nationalism, turns demographies against each other and leads to that security dilemma in the first place.

It made sense when our individual survival hinged on competing for the best land, subsequently forming groups to further that claim and drive others from their land to increase your own margin of subsistence.

But with modern farming, logistics, administrative capabilities and real-time communications across the globe, I think we should be able to do better by working together instead of against each other.

Of course, that would require people who like power to stop reaching for more and more, and that is an issue I don't think I need to lay out in detail.

living in Germany

Your username and instance kinda gave it away, comfortable cushion ;-)

[–] KomfortablesKissen@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Forming groups is still important. We need it to find our place in the world. There is no single truth, therefore we argue and fight.
Not saying anything you said is wrong, btw. Just wanted to state why we still have this stuff.

Your username and instance kinda gave it away, comfortable cushion ;-)

Just wanted to make it clear that I don't have an american POV :)

[–] luciferofastora@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 days ago

Forming groups is still important. We need it to find our place in the world. There is no single truth, therefore we argue and fight.

Absolutely. Forming groups defined by commonality is good. Discussions are important to check our own biases and misconceptions. Diversity is key to avoiding stagnation. Conflict can create opportunity for growth.

War, above all else, destroys. There are many great things we can do with each other that don't involve violence.

Not saying anything you said is wrong, btw. Just wanted to state why we still have this stuff.

Good point, adding nuance is important.

[–] PM_Your_Nudes_Please@lemmy.world 23 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I once played D&D with a paladin who basically followed this. He was an Oath of Vengeance paladin. For the unaware, OoV paladins often have zero chill. They’re typically something akin to Batman with magic powers. My goal was to avoid that.

His oath had something along the lines of “Without the capacity for violence, pacifism is not a choice. Pacifism without choice is victimhood. I will choose pacifism whenever possible, but will not watch idly when people are victimized. I will ensure the victimized are made whole, and the victimizers know the pain they have caused.”

Basically, he would try his best to talk his way through encounters first. He would give enemies every opportunity to back down. He had incredibly high charisma to try and persuade, intimidate, or deceive others out of attacking. After all, he was attempting to choose pacifism whenever possible. But if he believed that a bully was victimizing someone, the gloves came off and he channeled all of his pent-up fury into making the bully regret their actions. And since paladins use charisma to cast their spells, his smites were painful.

The DM loved it, because it helped us avoid falling into the murderhobo trope that combat-oriented D&D players often fall into. It also gave him a chance to actually flesh out some of the NPCs who would have just been throwaway no-name combatants.

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[–] CitizenKong@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Yeah, although the Doctor is pretty hypocritical with his pacifism. Something which this quote sums up pretty well. He did kill several species after all.

[–] Skyrmir@lemmy.world 31 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The Doctor doesn't call himself a pacifist, he just detests violence. If needed though, he will absolutely blow your shit up.

The other quote to go with that one was "Good men don't need rules, you're about to find out why I have so many."

[–] dragonfucker@lemmy.nz 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

"This is Clara, my carer. She cares so that I don't have to.

[–] CitizenKong@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

That was a Doctor that grappled with the question whether he was a good man or not. Decidedly grumpier and more prone to violence too. Also Scottish.

[–] WhiskyTangoFoxtrot@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I thought Rory was the good man. It's been a while since I've seen that episode.

[–] Uruanna@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

It is, that was the twist - the Doctor is not the good man.

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[–] CodexArcanum@lemmy.world 33 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I've expressed a similar sentiment as "it's easy to be enlightened up on a mountain." As in, big whoop to all the wise hermits who fled society to find peace: that's not being above the problems of the world (except literally), it's hiding from them and pretending that ignorance can be bliss again. The real work is maintaining peace and wisdom in the face of monstrous injustice.

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[–] dragonfucker@lemmy.nz 31 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Avatar does this great. Aang is a pacifist because that's part of his culture, and he's the last one left to embody his culture's values so he doesn't feel he can abandon them. But that boy has some anger issues. Especially when the bad guys hurt animals.

[–] Hackworth@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] Zachariah@lemmy.world 27 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Tempered rage might come across as tranquil, but it would be nice to have hints in the narrative. Reminds me of this line about Bruce controlling the Hulk: “That’s my secret, Cap: I’m always angry.”

[–] sundray@lemmus.org 10 points 1 week ago

Calm like a bomb.

[–] samus12345@lemmy.world 27 points 1 week ago
[–] urda@lebowski.social 12 points 1 week ago

You know, Dude, I myself dabbled in pacifism once. Not in 'Nam of course.

[–] SunlitSorceress@lemmy.ml 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Tranquility is a real trait that some people have. It's not a common one.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 20 points 1 week ago (1 children)

And those people are not necessarily pacifists. The issue is that the idea that you would get from movies and TV is that they are one and the same.

[–] donuts@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Hijacking this comment thread to say I appreciate you

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[–] MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz 17 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

For most people, a prerequisite feeling for tranquility, is contentment.

And trust me, no pacifist is "content" with the current state of the world. "Worry-free" is literally in the first sentence on the wikipedia page of the word, and I don't think anyone can be that, except temporarily and/or by being inebriated.

The only way I know to be tranquil, is to ignore the world, and willfully focus only on the good things in my immediate surroundings, in my life specifically.

Essentially, to get there I have to take a break from caring about most things. I don't like doing that. I want to improve things, and to do that I have to care about things to begin with.

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[–] aeronmelon@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago

I, too, and a pissedifist.

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

It’s resolution in my experience. My rage is the byproduct of belief made active. It is the choice every day to prove to those around me that a better world is possible and it begins with self fucking control

I’m no pacifist but I’m someone who believes humanity can be better and needs to seriously think when utilizing the power to harm

[–] agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

It's complicated.

As elsewhere stated, outward tranquility doesn't necessarily indicate internal state. And even still, it is possible to exert some control over your emotions, it's a skill that gets more effective with practice.

I myself am a fairly tranquil person. This is likely precisely because of very non tranquil conditions growing up. I'd wager this is the case for most counterintuitively calm people. You learn not to succumb to the initial stress response of panic or anger: take a breath, look at your situation calmly, determine an effective course of action, execute that course of action calmly and deliberately. Anger clouds your judgement, encourages you to make rash decisions. Whatever your problem, tranquility helps you to solve it cleanly without creating new problems.

Additionally, as your empathy grows, you have less and less anger towards individuals, as you recognize their transgressions are themselves symptoms of their own panic and anger. It's hard to be angry at scared, lost, and lonely people clutching at ideologies designed explicitly to prey on their insecurities.

I think it's best portrayed in The Invisibles where, after spending the entirety of the story building up an epic ideological war between the forces of authoritarianism and freedom, we're told "We lied. We are not at war. There is no enemy. This is a rescue operation." Daryl Davis fights intolerance without anger towards his potential converts.

So what does that leave us? Righteous anger at abstract ideologies and systems that ensnare insecure people into a web of hatred and vitriol. But anger isn't useful against abstract ideologies and systems, they are cold and emotionless. Some might claim it is, but they're conflating anger with resolve; anger can help maintain resolve, but it isn't necessary. It is quite possible to be tranquil and resolutely opposed to tyrannical and hateful ideology. Personally, I think it's more effective than visibly brimming with rage.

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[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

When you're an anarchist pacifist, but the world makes you so mad, you just wanna kill some people.

[–] rockerface@lemm.ee 3 points 1 week ago

Sounds like Vinland Saga

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