rhacer

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[–] rhacer@lemmy.world 1 points 16 hours ago

Holy smokes I'm sorry. I didn't know if my story can encourage you or not, but maybe it will.

I got married in 1987. Not quite 20 years in in 2006, we split up. I was unhappy, and became an asshole and walked out in her and my three sons. I realized almost immediately that I couldn't look myself in the mirror. And twenty months later we decided to give it a shot. It lasted almost two years before the wheels finally came off for good.

So here I am, not quite 50 and very single. I met another girl, we became a couple and have now been together 13 years.

It can happen. You can find happiness again

[–] rhacer@lemmy.world 4 points 23 hours ago

This is a fantastic post. Thank you. I do know that the Feds often use the Commerce Clause to put the lie to my original statement, but with the abandonment of Roe, I've repeatedly heard "it's in the hands of the States" so maybe my hope is that someone somewhere my see a need to remain intellectually consistent.

Pipe dream, but a nice thought.

[–] rhacer@lemmy.world 22 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

Not progressive, and I roll my eyes at many things California does. That said I 100% applaud this. I wish more states used their power as individual states to reign in the Federal government.

Remember The Constitution says any rights not specifically granted to the Feds are the States.

Good for California.

[–] rhacer@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago

Not an A's fan but a baseball fan. Today I am wearing my Oakland A's cap, cause fuck Fisher.

[–] rhacer@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago

You can try The Free Press their coverage starts at 7pm Eastern tomorrow.

https://youtu.be/u3Seqsx7I_A?si=vvLkp6KPhJlzJ3Yr

[–] rhacer@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago

This sounds like exactly my response to a ”Christian” movie. They are so ridiculously bad because to earn the label "Christian" they have to be preachy.

[–] rhacer@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago (1 children)

We had just moved from Portland to Denver, and were trying new restaurants. One Sunday we ordered delivery from a local Chinese place that had good reviews. Food came, we ate and all was good for a couple of hours.

Then my wife said "I think I'm gonna puke* and dashed for the bathroom. Being the good husband, I followed her to hold her hair while she worshipped the porcelain god.

She had barely got done emptying the content of her stomach, when I literally had to shove her out of the way to emoty mine.

We were both miserable for about 36 hours.

[–] rhacer@lemmy.world 11 points 5 days ago (5 children)

11-22-63 by myself and The Hail Mary Project with my wife.

I just finished listening to all 14 Honor Harrington novels.

[–] rhacer@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Reminiscent of the garage finds in the Forza Horizon games.

[–] rhacer@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

A while back a woman died after eating at a Disney restaurant and being assured that the food she was ordering was allergen free. Disney responded very poorly to the husband's suit, but I wonder if the Disney employee believed things were allergen free because of one of these hacked menus.

[–] rhacer@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

I think this is the right answer. Dude literally tapped out. That shows a huge lack of leadership.

[–] rhacer@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago (2 children)

The number of times I have been down voted for telling young ADHD sufferers to lean into the advantages of ADHD instead of bemoaning the disadvantages, are numerous.

I have to regiment myself every day, if it's a boring same-old day with nothing urgent. I purposely put things off to increase urgency so I can accomplish mundane tasks. BUT when the shit hits the fan, I thrive. I can take multiple simultaneous inputs from vendors and engineers and pissed-off business people, and correctly direct and respond to those inputs when others are falling apart due to stress.

Lean into your strengths! If you have ADHD. You have a super power. Use it!

 

I'm trying to learn to be a fan of baseball. This sort of history helps shape that burgeoning fandom.

 

I've long thought I should be a baseball fan, join me on a quest to become one.

 

There's a song, I think I only heard one time likely on KGON in Portland, OR and likely in the late 70s. This song has haunted me over the years but I have never been able to locate it again.

The one thing I really remember is that there is a spoken-word portion where the vocalist talks about the Boogie Woogie, but pronounces it more like Boozhi Woozhi.

I'm laying in bed quarantined with Covid and once again its memory and my inability to determine what song it was is haunting me.

 

My favorites broke. They were working great but now they don't work at all. I can't favorite anything there icon sits in the middle of the plus sign and I can't move it to any open slot. Things I had already favorites continue to work, but I can't add new things or swap things out.

I've tried dropping my entire inventory and then picking things back up but that is not resolving there issue. It's not game-breaking but it is frustrating.

 

If you've been waiting to buy on console, now is the time to pull the trigger

 

I own XCOM 2 on PC. Is it worth getting it on the Series X so I can play while sitting on the couch?

 

Anyone have any insight into Rapids v. Timbers? Should I stay up later than I was planning (I'm on the East Coast). Or should I go to bed?

 

Shortly after my previous post about BEX, my merc company folded due to a lack of funds.

I took the opportunity to install BTA and give it a try. I love the depth, I love the details, but I'm really struggling with the lack of a cohesive art style. I'm finding it pulling me out of my suspension of disbelief.

Has anyone else had that difficulty? Will I outgrow it with time?

 

If the video game is fair game...

I've been playing BEX, and I suck at it mostly. I always play Ironman, so that entails lots of restarts. I finally have a merc company that has lasted a bit. I've moved up to 2 and 2.5 skull missions.

Needed some money quickly and took a 1.5 skull mission. Comstar showed up, wiped my lance it was the last mission in my current system, I didn't know what I was going to do to not go bankrupt.

Discovered I had Shadowhawk in cold storage sold it, started taking out my "starter" mechs on half-skull and one-skull missions, I'm starting to become a bit more financially solid again and may have survived afterall.

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