Plot twist, OP works in a voiceover studio.
this post was submitted on 16 Jul 2024
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Damn that actress has range!!
The dungeon master didn't write down which NPCs have which accents.
Pretty sure I read about this in Joe Navaro's book What Every Body Says. It's possibly a sign she is uncomfortable or stressed. My wife in social situations will sometimes start talking like an old Jewish lady from the Bronx, sort of like Fran Drescher. More commonly peoples voices will go up an octave like when asking for a favor.
I speak with an american accent in my academic circle because everyone there is super american.
But in my friend group I let my half-aussie half-british accent go free.
Also speak that american accent with most strangers since they have usually learnt american english and will probably understand me better.
I speak perfect German, in fact my German is better than my Russian (which my parents taught me). I cannot say one word or read a sentence in German to my parents without the heaviest Russian accent. It's insanely hard to turn off and I have to concentrate on every word if I want to pronounce it normally. But the default is the most heavy and cliched Russian accent.
Code switching is pretty common, but this sounds like something different since she's using different accents with the same people.
Also speak that american accent with most strangers since they have usually learnt american english and will probably understand me better.
I love it when I meet Asians who learned English from the English. Same goes for black people from England. The accents are so unexpected that they sound really appealing and cool.
With the kind of demogaphic on lemmy sure. But trust me speaking in a thick half aussie half british boganesque accent anywhere with non-uni educated people in the US gets you blank stares of confusion. I once had an old lady at wallmart yell at me too speak english or leave the country 😂
Same. I met a German girl at a hostel in Los Angeles once when I was young and her English was so perfect and her accent so thoroughly American that she had to show me her passport for me to believe she was German.
It was all fun. I had kinda forgotten about that little incident until this thread. :)
Just because someone has a personality disorder doesn't mean they are incapable of doing their jobs. That's an ableist assumption.
Don't take it as an insult, if you keep being ableist that would be grounds for insults, but I'm honestly just letting you know.
It's normal for people to change how they speak based on the audience they're speaking to. Here's an interesting video focusing on "gay voice" but notes it's not just a thing gay men do. Everyone does it. The thing is, it's consistent, not random. If the person at your work isn't changing their voice based on who they're talking to, but randomly, they're just being weird.
I have a good friend who lives and works in West Hollywood. Whenever he comes to visit his accent sounds hella gay when he first shows up, and gets less and less gay as the visit progresses. We definitely adjust our speech based on whom we are surrounded by. I once hung out with a Londoner for a week, and near the end of the trip it was pointed out to me that I was speaking with an English accent when I got drunk. The funny thing is that my then-girlfriend told me to stop it, and I couldn't. I couldn't go back to my normal accent for some reason. Of course it went back to normal on its own when I sobered up the next day.
It sounds like she has some personality issues, but as someone who has lived in a bunch of different countries, I can attest that sometimes I forget how to pronounce certain words, and something weird can come out every once in a while. It’s rare, but some close friends and family have noticed and rightfully made fun of me for it. I really wouldn’t have noticed unless they pointed it out.
And don’t get me started on spelling…living in the UK for a while totally ruined my confidence with English spelling and turns of phrase. I also still say ‘cheers’ in lieu of ‘thanks’ more than I’d like to admit, and I’ve been back in the US for almost 8 years…
So yeah, your coworker sounds like a trip, but language is so goddamn confusing it’s totally possible that she has no idea how she sounds. Could also just be looking for attention, as others have suggested.
Foreign Accent Syndrome
https://psychiatryonline.org/doi/full/10.1176/jnp.2007.19.1.70
Generally associated with brain trauma
Does she work on a very diverse workplace? Some people unconsciously mirror the speech patterns of people around them, that can include accents
For people that have lived in different places it can be normal.
For myself, I sometimes still slip into it when I'm in a place where my anxiety is heightened. I was told I have "borderline DID" (disassociative identity disorder) stemming from PTSD, and that causes these kinds of "defenses" to pop up. Stress can absolutely trigger something like that.
It could very well be a brain injury, an autism quirk, or something else. Sounds like it's nothing to be concerned about, but I agree that it can be confusing or jarring!
As for her aggressive behavior, definitely talk to your superior about it. Regardless of her issue(s), a coworker should not be so hostile towards anyone.
Is she, or her family, Muslim French-Caribbean? Many locales in the Caribbean were historically controlled by the French for some time. Many Caribbeans moved to the US, and many would have settled into, broadly, black communities. Many black people in the US converted to Islam.
If she fits this description, it's perfectly reasonable that she has spent much of her life talking to people with American, French, Caribbean, and Arabic accents. It's also possible that she consumes media where speakers have those accents. As elsewhere noted, we tend to mimic accents somewhat, especially with consistent exposure.
It's perfectly reasonable that, shortly after spending some time around a certain accent, or while discussing a topic predominantly discussed with those of a certain accent, she may slip into one herself.
There is a specific psychiaric disorder associated with speaking in varied accents. I don't remember what it's called, but you might find more on the wikipedia page for the DSM5
It's called being bored at work.
Work sucks. Guess it's time to fuck around with the plebs. Nothing TOO obvious. Not dressing up like a pirate weird. Thats TOO over the top. Just something nice and subtle to make people question their own reality.
Oooooooh, talk with a different voice everyday! That'll fuck with the plebs!
.........and now you know the truth, OP. She's just bored.
Autism/ adhd masking
My first thought as well. I this autistic masking would be more suitable here but technically both could work.
That said, there's a lot of great ideas in this thread.
She may enjoy having fun
I didn't think there's a specific disorder that results in accent changes. It could be a simple as wanting attention - maybe wanting someone to ask her about it - or it could be she has some psychological disorder.
There is a thing called "Foreign Accent Syndrome," but as I understand it, it just affects the way your mouth and tongue work in a way that others perceive it as a foreign accent. I don't think it would cause shifting from one accent to another.
I met a southerner who speaks in a more northern accent, but sometimes slips into their original southern accent on certain words or when yelling, which happens in the busy kitchen I was working with them in.
It’s pretty funny to have someone behind you shouting about their hot trays of potatoes or about them carrying knives or whatever.
I know someone like that. Does she also sometimes claim to be working on her PhD and to have multiple marriage prospects?
Just sounds like a narcisst to me. I wouldn't look into it much. Your attention is exactly what they want
Maybe she's a theater kid. They're weird. Does she do acting?
Would it be weird to ask her what’s up with the accents?
Ya mon!
I knew someone--American--who would affect some sort of British-ish accent. It was part of her identity because she had spent some summers in England or something. It was strongest at times, especially when she was meeting someone for the first time; no one with an accent themselves, so it wasn't that she was absorbing some influence, more that it was an aspirational trait.
Just offering this as a possibility
IANAMD but simply using various accents, by itself, is perhaps less relevant clinically than the emotional disregulation and socially maladaptive behavior you describe.
Unchecked, compulsive aggression with fixation that requires coworkers to physically extract themselves (harassment) is certainly diagnosable, but not by us or by you.
This should be addressed formally by a superior, if only so that your coworker has the documentation necessary to get the help they need. Your coworker will not remain so for long if this continues.
I've heard of people's accents changing after receiving a brain injury. Whether that's more likely than some form of attention seeking, who knows.
Maybe Histrionic Personality Disorder?
She learned all of them, and changes her accent depending on her situation.
So... she is accentfluid? (Comparison to genderfluid but replace "gender" with "accent")
Sounds like a disorder relating to MPD, but it could be any number of things. My advice is to be supportive as much as you can be, when ones own mind is the issue it just feels impossible to deal with.
Not all disorders are ones that will affect work in "predictable" ways, everyone is different. They might just like practicing dialects and not have particularly strong social and coping skills.
As difficult as it can be to interact with people like that, keep in mind their perspective: it might feel like everyone wants to alienate them which makes it difficult to interact without that assumption tainting the experience.