Like, why is it so widespread, what causes it, what solutions are available, etc. I don’t really know how to ask this question so I hope I’m making sense

  • sunzu2@thebrainbin.org
    21·
    4 days ago

    If you actually spend time around women you’ll find that looks are a way lower priority for them than for men. You’ll find that they value things like being understanding, doing interesting things, being trustworthy, and for physical things as long as you’re hygienic and have a semblance of style they really don’t care much even if you’re heavier.

    Oddly class and status is missing from this list… I wonder why

    • Pazu900@lemmy.world
      1·
      10 hours ago

      Because that also isn’t a big deal to most women. If you’re going out trying to meet women at bars or clubs sure those are the women you’ll meet.