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Cake day: July 8th, 2023

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  • YTA, but not for the reason you’d expect. Your marriage is a partnership, and you just played immature games to prove a point.

    This is not how you deal with problems in a healthy manner.

    It’s clear you’ve made a split of work and you both are strained.

    The right move would have been to tell her, “hey babe, I overheard your call with your sister and it hurt me to think you feel I help with nothing. If you are strained can you explain what area you need more help with, perhaps we can adjust or trade something to make things work better.”

    Perhaps one of the things you do doesn’t matter as another one you don’t, trade out and prioritize what makes you both able to handle the day better.

    You may have proved to her how much you do, but you sure didn’t win anything other than resentment, the most fatal of emotions in a relationship.