Not sure I’d call a big enduro sled ‘micromobility’ - and I say that as someone who has two enduro bikes. They are just about the worst possible bikes for urban use - and urban use is about the worst possible use of this bike. The Vala wants to be pointed down the sort of steep lines you couldn’t descend on foot.
Beautiful bike (if overpriced) though.
Honestly, it sounds like you have checked out of the relationship.
If you actually want to rebuild, I strongly recommend finding a counsellor who works for both of you and can help you establish productive communication.
It’s cliche, but right now you are ‘Me’ focused. You need to be ‘We’ focused.