

If you are willing to be respectful and discuss ideas in good faith then there are lots of communities to choose from. Here are two off the top of my head:
!general@lemmy.world
!actual_discussion@lemmy.ca
If you want to broaden your perspectives and have discussions with actual trans people you could try !trans@lemmy.blahaj.zone
However, it is clear that you are searching for a guaranteed safe space to say something that you aren’t comfortable voicing out loud, even on an anonymous forum. We have all seen this show before, hence the comments you are getting. If you want a radical free speech space to say anything without consequences then Lemmy isn’t your platform.
There. Now you can stop complaining that nobody will answer your question. Go do something more productive with your day.
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