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i did notice that XD

oh, i misread it rapidly. welp, the first reply is unnecessary, i might delete that reply rq.

That’s just my observation, ideology does come into play in some kind of way. What I meant by passing a line(in my POV to note) is just to me it rubs the wrong way to defederate with them upon the principles calling them “tankies”(tho, that’s not as clear) and their behaviour being assholery(that’s a bit justified on the part of the mods if I am being honest, but it could have been handled differently and with open discussion between both the mods and communities of each instance). Other than, it is just how I felt on that part.

I tried my best to explain my view, so if you have any criticism go ahead tell.

update: I noticed the mods went ahead and defederated with hexbear. I am going to say I am not exactly the happiest with this decision, because of the mere fact of going against one of the most trans friendliest we have in Lemmy, all because of their conflict between ideology. When is the line crossed between security and delusion? I think this time it passed that line…I am just disappointed. ignore what i said here, i am very dumb sometimes and misread the instances section.

Being completely honest here, I don’t think we should defederate from them. I don’t see a point why. They are clearly pro-LGBTQ+, have huge support to our fellow trans brethren.
It also rubs me wrong in every single way to outright scrutinize one of the oldest still active Lemmy Instances, we all have to clearly remember which folks precursor the majority of us. Those being the left wing folks, we should respect their space and we respect theirs, otherwise it will be like mocking them to their faces. I have seen it with many others users treating them like garbage, how about we don’t? It is like inviting guests to your house and them stealing that home and turning it the way they want, and when you complain they start spurting crap about you being horrible, etc, etc.

I have said this one, and I will say this again;

For fuck’s sake keep your mouth shut, and move on(This doesn’t apply to fascists/conservatives). (This comment is not meant to come as rude, I am just stating my honest opinion.)

I do agree with the admins right there, but take this opinion in a grain of salt and I’m immediately pointing this out as an older teen (15+, >18), even if it is consensual adults, it is still still wrong in a way to portray pornographic material with childlike features, I believe this is due to how certain cultures associate youthfulness with ‘purity’/virginity and some people have an attraction towards that(if it is considered wrong or not, is upon the individual on question), directly that wouldn’t be considered predatory like, but if you think about it in a general view…it is.

also, to add another thing, I think it is better the defederation happened as this instance isn’t nsfw centered in any way and I personally prefer not to be bombarded in any social media with porn stuff, unless i actively seek it(Yes, teenagers do SEEK porno(unless they fully ace, I am an aegosexual to point out including), yes, they do have sex even! hormones is the answer)).

if you have any problems what i said please, point it out in the replies!