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Cake day: July 14th, 2023

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  • If all federated communities could decide upon to regulate same rules, every one of them could be moderated by their own moderators. But the problem I see here is the things that’s being federated is in reality server itself which means it would be impossible(not sure but at least not necessary) to do such a thing. But anyone can easily build an app to collect posts from same communities, it does not require to play with activitypub, just lemmy api.



  • You are totally right to request from them to work. But it is also reasonable that they don’t want to be seen as fat.

    You are partners and you should empathize for each other. Meaning you should find a middle ground to solve this.

    My recommendation is to set a deadline for them to lose weight and also it would be supportive for them if you also join the diet(if you don’t need to lose weight, a diet focuses more on healthy eating) with them.

    You are not the asshole for sure, but also don’t forget you both are partners, should be caring for each other. I am saying this because this struggle may damage your relationship real bad, just try to find middle ground.