It’s 9x5 so yeah it’s a little more narrow then usual. Makes it easier to find room to keep it in my bag.

Honestly if you’re just looking to dip your toes in without breaking the bank look into something made by jinhao. Basically all of them are sub 5 dollars and are good enough to try the hobby out, worst case you’re out a latte.

I would personally say that even if you aren’t the one paying for the wedding it’s still your wedding. In addition to that it sounds like your father is making a real effort to improve himself and allowing people that aren’t you to dictate your relationship with him is going to just cause more friction in the future. It’s good to hear that your future husband is siding with you on this and I hope things go well for you two.