
Number 1 stabilize sleep (go to bed at the same time every day and wake up without an alarm) you can use otc remedies like Tylenol pm and melatonin to help you start this habit.
Number 2 look at other things like nutrition, hydration, and exercise to get them to average
Number 3 happiness and meaningful Ness are not the same thing. Having kids makes you suffer more and become less happy, but you often feel your life is more meaningful. So ask yourself what cause is worth sacrificing happiness to? Then start doing it. Soon your happiness set point will adjust to include this meaningful Ness perspective and being unhappy won’t feel tiring
I memorized the following: “Port wine is red, and none is left in the morning”
Therefore Port - Left and Red and the other “Starboard” is Right and Green.