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Mildly Infuriating

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[–] Moonrise2473@feddit.it 51 points 1 year ago (2 children)

white text on yellow background, that's infuriating

[–] Knightfall@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 year ago

I had to zoom in on my phone just to be able to read that!

[–] kn33@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago (3 children)

When you're actually using the app instead of having the compression artifacts of being screenshot several times, it's not as bad.

[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago

I don't care if you're watching it in 32k on Odin's personal account, white on yellow is NEVER acceptable for ANYTHING.

[–] Redditiscancer789@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

It assails the eyes.

[–] Marxine@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

It doesn't make it less of a crime against good design. Low contrast for reading is bad practice.

[–] GustavoM@lemmy.world 25 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If someone does not take the least amount of effort to answer a simple question like that one .... then he doesn't care about you in the slightest.

"But its a generic question!"

Two words: common courtesy.

[–] CarbonatedPastaSauce@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago (4 children)

People (guys usually) also answer like this when they are trying to tell you exactly what you want to hear so that you'll sleep with them. They feel like if they give any wrong answer early on, they've lost their chance. It's a very manipulative mindset. He was like a deer in the headlights, not knowing if any answer he gave would be the right answer since he doesn't know her at all yet. So he stalls, hoping she'll drop it.

Or he might just be an idiot.

Either way, drop them and move on to somebody who will be real with you.

[–] GustavoM@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

In other words, playing games, i.e trying to "tick her funne bone" so he gets someone else to play instead of himself. But what most of those guys fail to acknowledge is that "tickling her funne bone" takes time -- it's not a "free pussy pass" of any sort that you "say it", and she goes "WHOOAAA fuck me mister! Fuck me right NOW!". That is not "acting tough" or smart, but acting like a douche.

[–] AFKBRBChocolate@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Yeah, that was my thought as well. This is the type of person who is only going to say something of they think it will impress you. The second possibility is that they will share nothing of themselves, period. In either case, they don't seem like good relationship material.

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[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's kind of nice when people reveal themselves to be insufferable douchebags at the outset rather than wasting your time.

[–] thekernel@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

her persistence indicates he is physically attractive

[–] Annoyed_Crabby@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] Rivalarrival@lemmy.today 8 points 1 year ago (3 children)

The last four songs I've listened to on YouTube are three pirate shanties and "We Know The Way" from the Moana soundtrack. I'm not answering this question either. :)

[–] Poob@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago

Fuck that, "We know the way" slaps

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[–] eochaid@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Someone's insecure about his Shakira collection.

Seriously though, I'm guessing this guy either doesn't like music at all (I've known a few and they act like this) or got made fun of a lot for his music tastes in high school. It's a shame this guy is probably a walking insecurity.

Which is a great reason to unmatch him and move on.

[–] voidhearts@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I didn’t even know it was humanly possible to not like music at all. What were they like? Like their personalities? Did they seem sociopathic or were they generally “normal”?

[–] Im_old@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Nobody's normal, we are all weird in our own way.

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[–] fabio1@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

early shakira songs in spanish are the bomb though, look up her mtv unplugged album

[–] instamat@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

ayooo whenever, wherever is 🔥🔥🔥 fr fr on god no cap fam

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[–] Mr_Dr_Oink@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

Id say she got to know just about eveything she needed to know about this person.

[–] Code@programming.dev 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Bro doing "being mysterious" the wrong way

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[–] stevedidWHAT@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (9 children)

This is literally out of these incel playbooks. Straight up tater tot bullshit lmao.

[–] Burstar@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The whole conversation is a facepalm. This should have been 3 lines:

"What's the last song you saved?"

  'I am not comfortable sharing that information with you'

"Okay, if you're aren't willing to let me get to know your basic interests clearly this isn't the kind of relationship I'm looking for. Good luck and have a nice day" [ends transmission]

[–] XEAL@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This guy is more of a volcel

[–] stevedidWHAT@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

We should make subcategories it’ll be fun!

[–] YungPlague@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

He did WHAT??

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[–] bquintb@midwest.social 4 points 1 year ago

You don't want to date that guy, let the process work.

[–] aaronstc@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

This is so weird. The first response was somewhat acceptable if in a joking manner but then he quintuple downed.

[–] Knightfall@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

You know... It's seeing this type of stuff I'm so happy I found my wife the old fashioned way before dating apps existed.

[–] ShoePaste@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

seriously. I'd be doomed to die alone if i hadn't met my wife in college. thank god my friends decided to set us up on a blind date because we had the same birthday and they thought it was funny

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[–] LaVacaMariposa@mander.xyz 2 points 1 year ago

"Why do girls keep ghosting me? I'm such a nice guy! Bohooohoooo"

[–] rob_t_firefly@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Something I was dearly hoping wouldn't find its way over here from Reddit: screenshots of posts which erase the posters' identity for no good reason.

Giving proper credit for content is cool, kids.

[–] ChaoticEntropy@feddit.uk 2 points 1 year ago

If it is any consolation for them, they definitely learned everything they needed to know.

[–] Severopol@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] Annoyed_Crabby@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

What's wrong with coldplay

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[–] arin@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Basically why they are single, you must be desperate lmfao

Pretty sure it was Nickelback

[–] nyternic@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Anyone who can't answer a simple, innocent and curious question is not worth putting more effort into. That tells me that they prefer to be the one in control of the conversation and later, control of everything.

[–] MrNemobody@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Average Tinder conversation.

[–] Fneec@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

I'm kind of torn on this one. His way of dealing with the question was bad for sure but I don't like sharing my personal tastes at first either because I'm insecure…

Anyone else notice picture quality is bad on lemmy?

[–] Armetron@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (3 children)

while you're at it. What's your mother's maiden name?

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[–] tsonfeir@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

Do they not want sex?

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