• Krrygon@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    8 months ago

    Because I am largely not passing at the moment, but am obviously transfem, the gap between the way some people treat me seems to have broadened. When I meet a stranger, they will either be extra nice to me, or immediately rude and standoffish. There is much less of an in between lol

    With my friends, I have noticed some extra kindness, but I figure that is because they recognize that I am in a vulnerable time of my life and they want to help me along the journey. I have received* a good few makeup and clothing gifts, been p neat in that regard

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      8 months ago

      Because I am largely not passing at the moment

      Can’t ignore that pseudo after that you shared your makeup 😂

      Extra nice or rude? gratzzz you are a woman ! No between or much less ? You really passing !

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        8 months ago

        That is very kind haha. In all fairness, this is the best of like 20 pictures, but I get what you mean. I should probably be less critical of myself in that regard. Thank you!

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          8 months ago

          And u shared your 1 on 20 :-)

          And other cis woman would have do the same. Just as like you :-)

          Yes be kind with yourself, clearly you deserve 😊😊