• SoleInvictus@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    My mother still declaws her cats, despite my telling her exactly what they do. She even had to switch vets once because her main vet began refusing to do it. I can’t understand how someone, knowing full well what happens, would still do it to an animal they allegedly love. She originally claimed clipping their nails was too much work and that cats will ruin her furniture, but now just refuses to talk about it after my wife and I have demonstrated practically no cat damage to anything in our home with four fully clawed cats, all raised as (asshole) kittens, over the course of about ten years.

    I’ll remember all the cats she mutilated (plus all the other heinous shit she did when we were kids) when it’s time to pick her retirement home.

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      11 months ago

      You can give a cat a scratching post and train them to use it. Our cat doesn’t destroy any furniture, only sharpens his claws on the scratching post. No need to mutilate him.

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        I have a bunch of scratchers but one little kitty who still likes to stretch on door frames. Some of them have scratches, and that’s fine, because a house is meant to be lived in and I love my cats.

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      11 months ago

      Is the secret just that you socialized them as kittens? We have an older cat that we adopted who is generally very well behaved but loves to sink her claws into whatever she can, so we find little puncture holes in our leather stuff regularly. It is just cheap stuff, so no big loss, but I would love to feel comfortable splurging on something other than the 1-3 materials that are somewhat claw-safe. We try to clip her claws but she does not behave for that at all.

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        It’s a combination of things. We got three of our girls as kittens; in fact, one still IS a kitten. The fourth we got as an adolescent. The only cat that is a challenge is one that we got as a kitten. The rest are happy to decimate their cat tree.

        Whenever we caught a cat scratching, we’d pick her up and relocate her to the tree, putting their paws on the sisal rope, then pet them and give them treats after they were done clawing it. After a many rounds (weeks, really) of this, they all started primarily using the tree.

        The odd cat out is the most aggressive, dominant cat. She uses the tree the majority of the time but occasionally goes after our rugs, I think as a dominance display. I’m not really sure, she’s an asshole. Since love and treats didn’t cement the behavior, that kitty gets the spray bottle instead. The frequency of off-target scratching is slowly diminishing.

      • vivadanang@lemm.ee
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        sympathies. my wife and I tackle our cat for claw trims, it genuinely takes two people to manage. But also, one of our dogs requires the same so it’s dependent on the animal and experience. ironically, our other dog, a terribly abused animal that came with a food-distrust issue - is perfectly fine with her nails being trimmed and let our daughter paint her nails.

        Every animal is different.