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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/VanillaOk6953 on 2023-07-30 14:04:07.

We’ve been roommates for a few months now. I work night shifts and am not even there when she brings home her hook-ups or whatever, so it’s not an inconvenience. I got back from a night shift around 5 am yesternight and was tired as fuck. Found her awake (for the first time in all the months we’ve lived together), rummaging through our refrigerator, didn’t really think much of it and plopped on my bed to get a few hours of sleep before classes began. She started aggressively knocking at my door about half an hour later, I was still awake, wasn’t really bothered by it, and so entertained her. She started venting about how most people around campus talk about how “easy she is to sleep with” and she’s made fun of/ slut shamed pretty often and it was hurtful that people perceived her the way they did and how being an OF model and having multiple casual sexual relationships doesn’t define her worth. I couldn’t care less about someone else’s sex life, and let her vent all she wanted without saying anything. She looked sort of upset when I asked her to stop her venting session as both of us NEEDED to sleep. Today morn I get cursed off by her for being an asshole for “not comforting” her and for “staying shut” her whole rant. She said she felt like she was being judged (by a sleep-deprived ass who could barely keep her eyes open!???) by a “close-minded braindead witch” who couldn’t accept her the way she was. THAT was when I lost my cool and told her she was insecure HERSELF about what she was doing and I was TOTALLY indifferent to how often she had sex and whom she had it with. She still continued to attack me annd here’s where I might’ve been an asshole. I was so done with her blaming me and shit that I ended up saying something along the lines of “if you want to sleep around and be a slut, own up to it”.

TL;DR : Roommates for a few months, I work night shifts, rarely cross paths with her hook-ups. Got back at 5 am, tired. She was awake, vented about being slut-shamed on campus due to her casual relationships and being an OF model. I listened but wanted to sleep. Next morning, she cursed me for not comforting her. I snapped, called her insecure, and said she should own her choices.