I am 25(M) and never even touched hand of opposite sex, at this point i am kinda sure that im going to be alone in my life, but i just cant get over it. I am ugly and skinny, and as for recent started going bald. Have some heart issues so no heavy physical work. I have no chance. So i wanted to move on from this state of mind, and just focus on work and hobbies. How can i do so? Do you have any advice you can share?
Oh, yeah, I was in the same boat, raised conservative Christian, dating wasn’t allowed until you were 18, and you were supposed to be dating to get married. I was something like 26-ish before I kissed someone for the first time. (…And ended up having sex with them a few hours later; unfortunately, I had such distorted views of relationships that I scared them off.) I’m mildly autistic, have pretty severe ADHD, and yet, I’ve been married this time for eight years. (The first one lasted eleven, but the last five or six were… pretty rough.)
Get some therapy. Work through some strategies for meeting people, and building relationships. The therapy that works is going to depend on you; different people respond better or worse to different treatments.
i never had any restriction in dating or anything, i think that im just unnatractive