I am 25(M) and never even touched hand of opposite sex, at this point i am kinda sure that im going to be alone in my life, but i just cant get over it. I am ugly and skinny, and as for recent started going bald. Have some heart issues so no heavy physical work. I have no chance. So i wanted to move on from this state of mind, and just focus on work and hobbies. How can i do so? Do you have any advice you can share?

  • RisenPhoenix@lemmy.worldOPEnglish
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    2 days ago

    heart issues mean i cant go to gym and start lifting and stuff, so cant get in shape, im trying to do calistenics but they are not that good for getting big muscles

    • Bazoogle@lemmy.worldEnglish
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      2 days ago

      I mean, I’m not a doctor, but isn’t cardio recommended for those with heart issues to strengthen the heart? Of course depending on the severity would determine the activity level, but I can’t imagine many doctors recommend sitting around all day for your health.

      Also, most women do not like big muscles. Men do. The people that compliment a bros body are other gym bros 99% of the time. Average women do not care about big muscles. Even if that was a deterrent for them, it just makes it easier for you. Who wants someone that vain anyway