Sure, maybe Sera was an unreliable narrator, and it’s just the USS Relativity working in the background to correct things (even if they end up happening a few years off from when they should).
But maybe in the time scale of millennia, it more or less evens out.
Khan comes to power later in the timeline, but DIS and SNW seem a little more modern than they should? Some things are slowed down, and others are sped up.
I absolutely am fine with this take now, especially. Ultimately, what we are talking about is the narrative importance of the events. If we want to have episodes where the characters go to “today” today must continue to exist within the narrative. If the narrative says that the world was noticeably different in 1996 - move it to 2036. If we’re still going strong move it to 2056.
These changes don’t make as much difference in the narrative that was being told to begin with.